August 25th, 2014
For a very long time, I did not want to grow up. I didn’t want to get my driver’s license when I was 16 because I was afraid to drive. I didn’t want to get a job for many years because I was in school and didn’t want to extra responsibility and stress. I dug my heels in when I should have been making great strides, and everybody my age surpassed me. Even people years younger than me have surpassed me. I didn’t want to grow up, I wanted to live at home and not have adult responsibilities.But now I want to grow up. I need to grow up. I need to get my driver’s license because I need to be able to drive to and from work. I need to work because I need to be able to pay for things. It took me 8 years to be ready, but at least I’m ready now. You can’t tell me that that doesn’t count for something.You are right. Life is very, very difficult sometimes. And it will only get harder as I get older. I need to be able to stand on my own two feet, but I need a little bit of help to get to that point.

For a very long time, I did not want to grow up. I didn’t want to get my driver’s license when I was 16 because I was afraid to drive. I didn’t want to get a job for many years because I was in school and didn’t want to extra responsibility and stress. I dug my heels in when I should have been making great strides, and everybody my age surpassed me. Even people years younger than me have surpassed me. I didn’t want to grow up, I wanted to live at home and not have adult responsibilities.

But now I want to grow up. I need to grow up. I need to get my driver’s license because I need to be able to drive to and from work. I need to work because I need to be able to pay for things. It took me 8 years to be ready, but at least I’m ready now. You can’t tell me that that doesn’t count for something.

You are right. Life is very, very difficult sometimes. And it will only get harder as I get older. I need to be able to stand on my own two feet, but I need a little bit of help to get to that point.

You speak English very well! (I speak a bit of French and have been to France, but my French is not as good as your English!) You’re totally right: I am the only one who knows what’s wrong and how to fix it, but I don’t know how to do these things. I want to be a better version of me, but I need guidance.

Haaha, no, someone did not really say that I am a literal shit. If you call somebody a ‘piece of shit,’ you’re saying that they aren’t a good person, they’re a bad person. Or an item can be a piece of shit. Like if you buy a new toy and it breaks immediately, it’s a piece of shit.

Thank you, you beautiful soul.I am desperate and hopeless and miserable because I feel so alone. I have parents and a sister, and a boyfriend, and friends and acquaintances, but not one single person is willing to give me an advice or guidance. How am I supposed to get my driver’s license if nobody will take me to the DMV, or practice driving with me? How am I supposed to know how to navigate tough life decisions if nobody will offer me any helpful advice? I ask for help, and receive none, so I have to figure things out by myself. And with the way things are going now, I probably WON’T have a job until I’m 60! If nobody will hire me at age 23, it’s only going to get more and more difficult to get a job as I get older.It shouldn’t be this difficult for me. Millions of other people manage it, so why can’t I? I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, and nobody will point me in the right direction. 

Thank you, you beautiful soul.

I am desperate and hopeless and miserable because I feel so alone. I have parents and a sister, and a boyfriend, and friends and acquaintances, but not one single person is willing to give me an advice or guidance. How am I supposed to get my driver’s license if nobody will take me to the DMV, or practice driving with me? How am I supposed to know how to navigate tough life decisions if nobody will offer me any helpful advice? I ask for help, and receive none, so I have to figure things out by myself. And with the way things are going now, I probably WON’T have a job until I’m 60! If nobody will hire me at age 23, it’s only going to get more and more difficult to get a job as I get older.

It shouldn’t be this difficult for me. Millions of other people manage it, so why can’t I? I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, and nobody will point me in the right direction. 

March 22nd, 2014
Aw, thank you! You are the very sweetest! I’m always touched when someone goes out of their way to tell me that something I posted meant something to them.

Aw, thank you! You are the very sweetest! I’m always touched when someone goes out of their way to tell me that something I posted meant something to them.

March 6th, 2013
I’ll say it again: each and every one of you puts the biggest shit-eatin’ grin on my face when you go out of your way to ask about Darla. You have no idea how much it means to me. You are the very sweetest.

I’ll say it again: each and every one of you puts the biggest shit-eatin’ grin on my face when you go out of your way to ask about Darla. You have no idea how much it means to me. You are the very sweetest.

August 24th, 2012



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August 6th, 2012
Hey, thanks! I know exactly which shirt you’re talking about! I just saw it on the Forever 21 website a few days ago (and I actually like it a teeny bit better than the tank I did see), but I didn’t see it in the store today… bummer. But, hey, at least I found one of them!I don’t know about you, but I don’t like ordering clothing/shoes online because I feel the need to try everything on. Otherwise, I would have ordered both Springsteen shirts from the website. And even having tried on the cropped tank in an S and an M, I was still uncertain about which size to buy (solution: buy both, although now I’m having buyer’s remorse and I’m thinking of returning/exchanging the M), so it’s a good thing I didn’t go ahead and order it online.

Hey, thanks! I know exactly which shirt you’re talking about! I just saw it on the Forever 21 website a few days ago (and I actually like it a teeny bit better than the tank I did see), but I didn’t see it in the store today… bummer. But, hey, at least I found one of them!

I don’t know about you, but I don’t like ordering clothing/shoes online because I feel the need to try everything on. Otherwise, I would have ordered both Springsteen shirts from the website. And even having tried on the cropped tank in an S and an M, I was still uncertain about which size to buy (solution: buy both, although now I’m having buyer’s remorse and I’m thinking of returning/exchanging the M), so it’s a good thing I didn’t go ahead and order it online.